While pride festivals are mostly about parades and vendors, I find my favorite aspect is the entertainment. Now I’m not talking about the washed up has been artists that always seem to show up at gay events. You know, they had one dance hit in the 80′s and for some reason gay culture has latched onto them like goddesses. No, I’m talking about the gay independent artists. The ones who are self funded and working the stage because they love and believe in what they are doing. They write most of their own music, pay for studio time out of pocket, and typically have to keep a full-time job to support their passion. Yes, they are the ones that impress me. Each of them have a level of honesty that make their music and performances genuine.
While on this trip I was fortunate enough to meet three such perfumers at Capital Pride in DC. Two were performing and the third was a chance meeting at a bar later that night. I can honestly say that I was in gay indie music heaven.
First and foremost, my friend Justin Utley happened to be playing DC pride (the one year I was also going to be there), I was thrilled to see him perform again. Justin is an ex mormon who has risen out of gay reparative therapy to become an inspiring voice in the indie gay scene. His music could be called country but I prefer singer/songwriter. Escaping his home state of Utah, he now resides in NYC with his boyfriend of 3 years. Justin’s most recent release was nearly 20 months ago in the form of his album “Nothing This Real”. This release is a culmination of personal experiences from love to questioning the Mormon culture he came out of. It’s a record that’s as enjoyable today as it was 20 months ago when he put it out. Some songs like “Great Escape” always manage to land on my ‘favs’ playlist. Since it’s been a while, I asked him what’s next. He assured me there is a new music project on the horizon along with a music video for his award winning song “Stand For Something”. I have heard some clips of a new track he’s working on and can honestly tell you that I can’t wait for the finished product. I am also working on an interview with Justin, but because of his busy performance schedule, I have put it on hold until he has more time. In the indie music scene, being busy is a good thing, so I’ll cut him some slack.
The second performer I was thrilled to see and meet was Eric Himan. Now this was funny. I have listened to Eric’s music for a while now, but when Justin introduced me to him backstage, I was so distracted that it didn’t click with me who he was. Awkward to say the least, but once I came to my senses, I rushed back over to Eric and we chatted for a bit. However, if my introduction to him was awkward, his performance certainly wasn’t. Eric has a very soulful voice that really allows him to take command of some great vocal notes. Accompanied by the Soultre’ Singers, they belted out several of his best songs. They also performed a couple songs from his upcoming release “Gracefully” named after his recently deceased grandmother Grace. Now the CD has been released, I am telling you that it is a must have! One particular song stands out to me above all the others, “Waiting For The Thunder (Malala)”. This track is his tribute to the young girl who survived an attack by the Taliban simply for wanting an education. It strikes a very powerful tone and image of this brave young girl. This song will resonate with you! Bringing together his voice, writing, and raw talent, Eric Himan’s “Gracefully” deserves a listen, you won’t regret it.
The last performer wasn’t even performing at pride, but I was fortunate enough to meet Tom Goss at the Green Lantern later that Sunday night. I recognized Tom when he greeted a mutual friend who then introduced me. Wow, this was a trifecta of artists I couldn’t have imagined. I must say though, of the three men, I was actually a little starstruck by Tom. I mean, I wasn’t expecting this meeting, so I didn’t have a chance to think it through. I asked for a pic with him and proceeded to avoid staring at him while I attempted my best moves on the dance floor hoping he’d notice. Silly, yes I know, but he’s really cute! I discovered Tom only recently with the release of the video for his single “Make Believe”. A fun video where he is body painted in the nude (nothing exposed) while being filmed in time-lapse. You gotta love the story being told on his body. Tom’s most recent production is the video and single “Bears”. You see, Tom has an affinity for Bears. He loves a big burly man, and boy would I love to be that man. Sadly for me, he has already found his bear and is happily married. Regardless, it was still a treat to meet Tom and try my best to impress him with my dancing. I messaged him on Facebook after I got home from DC thanking him for the picture and recounting our chance meeting, this is the reply I got, “Yay! It was fun. You’re a great dancer too! Thanks for rocking the dance floor so hard.” OMG, he noticed!
So my pride adventure in DC came to a fun and unexpected close. I have to say that it was one of the best times I’ve had at pride in a long time. I will also say that when you find yourself going to a pride event, keep an eyes and ears on the indie artists. They are often better than the headliners. These performers are the real deal, talented, raw, and most of all, they are accessible. Say hello, they appreciate every fan and won’t take you for granted.
Here’s a small gallery of Justin performing at Capital Pride DC 2013.
- Capital Pride: A Photographic Journal (thewanderingbear.com)
- Capital Pride in Washington D.C. (thewanderingbear.com)
- PHOTOS: Capital Pride on Parade (advocate.com)
- Capital Pride Parade 2013 Brings Out Lynda Carter, A Giant Burrito, 100,000+ Attendees (PHOTOS) (huffingtonpost.com)
- Capital Pride. (swashbucklercarolyn.wordpress.com)